Truth


FIVE MINUTE FRIDAY

So now on Fridays a group of people who love to throw caution to the wind and just write without worrying if it’s just right gather to share what five minutes buys them. While the kids are changing into their swimming suits, while the popcorn is popping, while the dog is outside doing his business, while the show cuts to commercial. Just five minutes.

Today, the prompt is: Truth

It always seems to come down to that one, clarifying moment. The moment of truth. It might not be pretty, but we all need to hear it.

You have toilet paper on your shoe.

There’s a seed in your teeth.

What you just said really hurt me.

I can’t see you anymore.

We’re out of Nutella.

(Believe me, this is a tragedy in some circles.)

But there’s another kind moment of truth. This one is pretty, and we all need to hear it too.

I love your haircut.

When you prayed over me, I was at peace.

You did a great job organizing that project.

I’d love to see you again.

We’ve got plenty of Nutella.

Yes, they are only moments, but they change the way we feel, move and have our being. They can be embarrassing or disappointing, as well as supportive and encouraging. All of it truth, all of it real.

Truth is powerful. Dispense yours wisely.

Oh…and here’s a tip. Stock up on Nutella. You’ll make someone’s day.

And that’s the truth.


Linking today with: Five Minute Friday

79 thoughts on “ Truth ”

    • Hi Joyful! I love it! Thank you for that smile on my face right now :)

      The truth is that our ability to change the world through our truths is just astounding. Handled with care, we can lift the tired world, one person at a time.

      Thank you for your visit and smile inducing comment!
      Ceil

    • Hi Loni! How nice that you smiled, I wanted that reaction too, so thank you for telling me that! Truth can be funny too :)

      I have another blog-friend who loves Nutella, so that was the inspiration for that line. I think it has a rabid following!
      Blessing to you, and thank you for your visit. It was nice meeting you!
      Ceil

    • Hi Tam! I can tell through your blogpost today that you are fearlessly honest. That is a strong place to be, I admire that. It really is the path to freedom “The truth will set you free.”

      Truth can be painful and joyful, but it’s all important. Thank you for sharing yours.
      Happy Friday!
      Ceil

  1. Ceil, thank you for your words this morning. I heard a truth from a friend yesterday it was like ‘your words hurt me today’. I was devastated but needed to hear. Thank you for confirming.

    • Hi Barb! I am sorry about this hurtful truth. Sometimes the truth is like that, but it can lead to a better understanding. I hope that is the case with you and your friend.

      Truth is sometimes a call to action. And it can really heal. I’ll be praying for your situation, and for the healing in your friendship.
      Thank you for stopping by today. Have a wonderful weekend.
      Ceil

    • Hi Joanne! I think your truth is healthier than mine! Maybe I’ll borrow your truth :)

      Actually, I’m not all into Nutella. A blog-friend mentioned it in a post and it just stuck in my brain. Truth can be so many things, and funny is one of them! Thanks be to God for our sense of humor :)

      Blessings, have a great weekend!
      Ceil

    • Hi Dianna! Truth is such a deep subject, and so hard to cover in five minutes! But truth can be funny too.

      I think you should send your Nutella to Linda. She really likes it!
      Have a wonderful weekend, my faithful blog-friend :)
      Ceil

    • Hi Jennifer! Thank you, and thanks for visiting today. I hope your post on truth is going better…I know you were having a hard time writing it. Such a big topic for such a small amount of time.

      Blessings!
      Ceil

  2. Oh, don’t even get me going on Nutella! (wait, maybe I will post that, lol.)-Truth..very painful to hear and to tell the truth. “The truth will set you free”, no matter how painful is what we tell the boy. My husbands family is full of liars..and it drives us nuts..lie, lie, lie..can’t tell the truth for nothing..oh wait, I am rambling..I think my dear friend you have touched a nerve with me, lol. (how can you tell, lolol)-thank you dear friend. Have a blessed day.

    • Hi Linda! As you know, I have already visited you on your site. And you did write about Nutella! What a story…I had no idea that this post would be so powerful to you. Our God is an awesome God.

      I hope you have a wonderful day too, thank you for sharing your story.
      Ceil

    • Hi Jen! You know, the truth can be funny sometimes too. It’s not all dark and heavy. Truth is so powerful and has such ability to change us…we do need to treat it with respect. And be sure to share it when it can change things for the better!

      Happy Friday!
      Ceil

  3. Hi Ceil, I love this post and the last one about “rug flipping” and God sending a job to you. God surely does know our needs and also gives us opportunities to bless others. Thanks for these lovely, fun-to-read posts. Enjoy the upcoming weekend!

    • Hi Deb! Thank you so much for your lovely comment, you made my day! I enjoy reading about your life, and meeting your family. Isn’t being blog-friends a wonderful thing?

      And I appreciate your telling me that they are fun to read. I really hoped so.
      My sister is coming in, as you know, so we’ll have a great time, I’m sure. We are only 14 months apart, so we are close. I wish I could see her more often :)
      Have a good weekend too Deb. Thank you for coming by today.
      Ceil

  4. Hi Ceil,
    I believe that truth matters ( a hypocrite won’t come before the Lord ), but there is a way and a time to speak if we have something against a person. There is also a time to speak and a time to refrain from speaking, especially about little things that are not that important and would only hurt or embarrass a person.
    God bless

    • Hi Brenda! What good things you bring up here in your comment. There definitely is a timing issue. We don’t want to crush anyone. The truth is so powerful, we must use it with care.

      It’s hard to write about such a huge topic in five minutes. I take that limit seriously, so I just wrote about how many truths there are, both light and heavy. Including your ideas would have been a good addition. Thank you for your wisdom.
      Have a great weekend, and thank you for sharing here.
      Ceil

    • Hi Kim! It is powerful. And in the Lord’s hand, he sets us free in that truth. What a wonderful God he is!

      My sister and her husband are coming to visit, so it will be a fun weekend, but probably not too peaceful. But I’m looking forward to it!
      Hugs,
      Ceil

  5. You got me to thinking that there is a lot of responsibility in truth, the pretty and not so pretty. Those moments, even the ones that seem insignificant. can shape who we are and who we become. I can see too, as I grow older, how those moments can free us. On a funny note- I have actually had toliet paper on my shoe and my family laughs about it to this day! And around here, it has to be peanut butter! The truth is I get a little grumpy if I don’t have it. Have a wonderful week-end!

    • Hi Peggy! As I was writing this, I was really struck by how powerful our words and truth are. It is a real responsibility, I agree completely. We can build up, or correct, but it should all be done with love.

      I love peanut butter too! Especially the chunky stuff. I seem to major in “slip showing” myself. Always humbling, but I need to hear that :)
      Thank you for your thoughtful and fun comment Peggy. I appreciate you!
      Ceil

    • Hi JR! I think we all have those experiences of ‘thank you…that hurt.’ Speaking and hearing the truth is a powerful experience, no matter which way it goes. I think that’s why I said we have to use ours so carefully.

      We can lift or dash the spirit by what we say, even if it is the truth. This definitely was an interesting subject to write about…I learned a lot.
      Have a great weekend!
      Ceil

    • Hi Billie Jo! I know that you are such an honorable person, and I know that doesn’t come from no where. I bet your parents were such wonderful people.

      I think when you speak truth always, people are not afraid to speak theirs to you. And that is a respectful relationship. Great thought, I really like that.

      The topic of truth is SO BIG. It’s hard to cover anything of it in five minutes. Definitely food for more thought.
      I will have a happy weekend with my sister and her husband, as you know. Can’t wait for the fun to start :)
      Hugs, Ceil

    • Hi Kristi! Awww…that was nice! And thank you for coming on over today, it’s great to see you :)

      This topic was a blessing to write about. I learned the power of truth. It’s HUGE! I guess I never really thought about it in this way before.
      Hugs right back, my friend!
      Ceil

    • Hi Beth! So glad you liked the post today. It was a real journey writing it. And Nutella…well, I’ve only had it once. It was pretty good though. I actually read a blog-friend’s post and she really liked it, so it stuck in my head!

      Have a blessed weekend :)
      Ceil

  6. Dear Ceil
    I like you second list of truth much more than the first and I think the truth is, it is because we are way to self-conscious and totally addicted to Nutella!
    Thanks for a big smile!
    Blessings XX
    Mia

    • Hi Mia! I am so glad you saw the humor in this post about the Nutella. Some people really LOVE that stuff! I had it once, and it was pretty good. I actually had a blog-friend who really liked it, and that idea just stuck with me.

      I love making you smile, my friend! Have a good weekend :)
      Ceil

    • Hi Holly! You can disagree about the Nutella, that’s ok with me. Some like it some don’t. But if you like it, the fact that there isn’t any wouldn’t be a fun truth at all!

      Thank you for coming over today! Have a great weekend :)
      Ceil

    • Hi Mari! Really? You think it’s awful? I had it once. It wasn’t bad. Not great, I’ll admit, but not bad. We all have our own tastes…what do you like?

      Have a wonderful weekend!
      Ceil

  7. I am going to try and be more positive. I already try to be….but I’m going to double down on my efforts. One never knows what a smile, a kind word, a listening ear can do for someone else. Thank you for sharing your blog with me.. I love being here.
    Jackie

    • Hi Jackie! I know what you mean. Just in writing this post I really realized how powerful words are. It was an eye-opener for sure. Like you, I want to be so much more positive in what I say. And take the time to listen too…that’s a good point. Thank you! I am positive that you are already an encourager.

      You are so kind Jackie, thank you for your supportive comments. I love for you to be here. Wasn’t it a good day when we got to know each other? God is so good.

      Have a wonderful weekend, my blog-friend :)
      Ceil

  8. Do you have any idea how much you bless my life, dear Ceil? I’m serious, I don’t think you will ever know how thankful I am for you :) Okay, I was just visiting Linda at Simply Linda and I told her what I’m about to tell you….I don’t eat Nutella. You are probably wondering why and to be honest, I don’t know what I don’t :) I guess I will have to go purchase some. The last time I tried it was when I was in Africa on a mission’s trip and that was almost 10 years ago.

    Anywho, I hope you have a lovely weekend, sweet friend. Hugs!

    • Hi Stephanie! Oh my, thank you so much for telling me, Stephanie. We have been blog-friends for a long time…well, I haven’t been around as long as you have, but you were one of my first ‘followers’. Thank you for being so faithful in coming and commenting too.

      I’ve only had Nutella once, and it was ok. But people who like it really like it!

      My sister and her husband are here, and we had a lovely dinner with my Dad. It’s going to be a great family weekend. Hope you have a good one too!
      Hugs right back to you,
      Ceil

  9. Amen, each thought/action/truth is an opportunity to spread God’s love, beauty, peace, joy and blessings. OR, we can be negative and become stumbling blocks. It’s so much more fun to be a blessing. Plus, I can’t tell you the number of times where I was going through something difficult and someone gave me a smile or prayed over me and it made all the difference. I like to pass that on when I can.

    YOU are such a blessing to me, too. Thank you for being you, Ceil!

    • Hi Anne! Thank you! You know how happy I am to be your blog-friend…God has been so good to us.

      I was really struck by how powerful truth is, and how powerful our words are. I hope that it will teach me to be more careful with mine. And passing on what I have been given, that’s a wonderful idea. Thank you!

      Have a great weekend, enjoy those little ones :)
      Ceil

    • Hi Michell! People really seem to connect with Nutella. It’s amazing how simple products unite us. It’s so fun!

      I really discovered how powerful it is while writing this post. I don’t think it ever really sunk in. It really was a great experience. I’m so glad you liked it too!
      Happy Weekend!
      Ceil

  10. This is beautiful sharing Ceil :) and I love Nutella too, I just almost bought it yesterday with my little brother but the price is over than what we have so we ;pending and today and today I feel like you post calling me to come and buy again haha.

    Been thinking of you Ceil, much love to you and family.

    Delvalina

    • Hi Delvalina! Several people have commented on how expensive Nutella is. I guess that’s because it’s imported?

      Thank you so much for your thoughts. We are having a wonderful weekend. Just got back from an Art Fair, and spending some time at a local Art Museum. My sister is an architect, so she really enjoyed it. I love local art, so it was all a big success.

      Hope you are having a wonderful weekend!
      Ceil

    • Hi Cecelia! And we know our truth in him. That’s why we need to be so careful about what we say. Always truth in his love. Love makes everything beautiful!

      Thank you for your visit! I hope you are having a good weekend :)
      Ceil

  11. My middle name on facebook is Kelly ‘Mustsharetruth’ Howard, lol! It is the truth of Yah’s Word that I love to share, but His Word does both what is ‘perceived’ as positive and negative. It uplifts and carries and sustains, and the list is endless because it is life giving. But it also judges, which is both painful and beneficial. So, when you are out of Nutella, it hurts to grab those car keys late at night and go stock up, but it feels so much better when you DO! I just adore your analogies, dear, it makes everything hit home just like Yeshua’s parables! Heavenly hugs, Kelly

    • Hi Kelly! Thank you so much for your kind words, I am SO happy that you like what I write!

      Gods truth does cover us all, the bad and the good. But he does it with such love, it takes that sting away. That’s how I think I should be. Always truthful, but always in love.

      See you in the Nutella aisle!
      Ceil
      PS I love your hugs :)

    • Hi Mindy! I think a lot of people like Nutella. Isn’t it funny how just one food unites so many. I gain pounds thinking about food too. Where did my metabolism go??

      Thanks for visiting :) Hope you are having a good weekend!
      Ceil

    • Hi Victor! Thank you for your generous comment. That is so nice of you!

      We should all speak for the good, even if what we say is correcting. It’s all about intention and love.
      Thank you for your prayer for blessing. I really appreciate that.
      Have a blessed Sunday!
      Ceil

  12. Can you believe I’ve never tried Nutella? I must be missing something …

    I like to focus on the good truths. I want to work on speaking the good truth to others – I often think it but miss out on saying it as much as I should.

    • Hi Jerralea! I wouldn’t go rushing out to get it on my account. I hear from the other commenters that it is on the expensive side.

      Focusing on the ‘good truths’ is a great thing to do. I think we should all be cheering for each other, and letting people know when they do good things. I know I can improve on that too, Jerralea. Let’s work on it together. It’s easier with two!

      Have a blessed Sunday!
      Ceil

  13. A wonderful post Ceil; so much truth in it (hahaha!)! It isn’t always easy speaking words that confront or possibly hurt, and I continue to learn to pray and seek God’s wisdom before approaching people with truths to help and offer support. On the other hand, we don’t speak truths often enough to encourage and lift others up; this s a wonderful reminder sweet friend!

    Blessings and hugs! I hope you are enjoying your weekend! :)
    Denise

    • Hi Denise! Some truths are harder to speak than others, that’s for sure. But taking more time to be uplifting and positive is a really good goal. There is so much good all around us, I should have more of an ‘eye’ for that.

      I am enjoying my weekend! Thank you for your blessings and hug, I offer you mine right back :) So glad you could visit today!
      Ceil

    • Hi Natalie! Well, I only had five minutes to cover a very large subject, so there’s no time to mess around! But I’m glad you liked what I came up with.

      You’ll find a lot of people who feel the same way you do about the Nutella!
      Thank you for coming over today :)
      Ceil

    • Hi Linda! It is amazing how powerful the truth is…I really came to see that in writing this post. We affect so many by what is said. I think it all comes down to love.

      Good to see your smiling face tonight, thank you for your visit!
      Ceil

  14. It’s true that both kinds of truth are necessary but I like the positive kind best. Sometimes we can give negative truth in a positive way. I think, Ceil, that you do that here on your home in blogland.

    • Hi Pamela! I like the positive ones better too! But I would like to know when I have toilet paper on my shoe :)
      I hope I write positively, thank you for pointing that out. I’m glad you think I do that, but I could always do better. Great idea, thank you!

      Happy Sunday!
      Ceil

  15. Here’s my truth, I know I’ve alluded to it before but this prompted me to clearly speak it:

    Ceil, your words frequently bless me more than you could ever know. I am certain that it is the Lord who has brought us together because you frequently speak to my spirit and I get a echo or a confirmation of God’s will through your posts. This hasn’t happened just once or twice… but MANY times.

    Thank you for being a blessing Ceil… for doing God’s work.

    Blessings to you.
    xoxo

    • Your comment really touched me Jennifer. Thank you for helping me see how God works, by bringing us together in the blog-world. You have no idea how wonderful it is for me to know that what I write makes a difference, or touches someone else. Isn’t that what we all want to do?

      You make me want to work really hard to write good things. Thank you so much, and God is so good.
      Bless you!
      Ceil

  16. As I read your post, I started cracking up in laughter! My son and I love Nutella. One Summer we were leaving to SC, and in the middle of the night I remembered I don’t have nutella. I was disturbed and couldn’t sleep. So, First stop was to the store. I was happy and I had it next to my seat with homemade bread. What a truth you have wrote, the best post of the year!!! I love it, thank you for visiting my blog too!

    • Hi Sara! Thank you for my new award “Best Post of the Year”. I’m so honored :)

      I tell you, there are a lot of people who just love this stuff, and you and your son are two of them. I wish I was in the car with you, I wouldn’t mind a little Nutella on that homemade bread…YUM!

      Thank you for visiting today, and for your comment. It made my day!
      Ceil

    • Hi Janis! So nice to see you today! Thank you for your supportive comments. It was fun to write…truth is a big topic, that’s for sure. It was hard to find one aspect to write about!

      Hope you are doing well my friend,
      Ceil

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